So-called involution is not merely a question of whether or not competition is fierce, but whether you get anything out of it. People know full well that the results aren't what they desire, but they still want to compete. They don't know other ways to live if they're not competing, and if you quit the competition, you're left facing moral pressure.

It's really the same everywhere. A "social contract" that's always been bogus. What you are told (you will get you a loyal spouse and prosperity) is obviously false, and people who are still blue-pilled are going to face much anxiety thanks to this. They can have fun being plow horses for a corrupt system:

The most subversive, explosive message you tell the Chinese people is something different. It goes like this:

The Party is a racket. The guys at the top are not any different from the ones you deal with at the bottom. The Party exists to make sure their kids have a spot at the front of the line no matter how much more your kids deserve it. You are not forced to call Xi all these fancy titles because it will help him restore China to its ancestral glory: you are forced to do all of that so Xi Jinping's daughter gets into Harvard and his family racks up homes in Hong Kong. All of the taxes, the censorship, the ridiculous rules and regulations, the blustering about war, the hero-worship and the propaganda, the detention centers and the cameras -- it is all a racket. You live a slave so that someone else's children can get ahead.

Kinda like here. We all live and die so a bunch of parasites can enjoy the DC cocktail circuit.