Much digital ink is spilled upon the subject of why so many are romantically frustrated. If they would but think on the math, they would immediately understand there is no fix to the problem within their lifetime.

We have an inverted population pyramid, where less and less new women are available in new generations. Women always prefer to pair with older men, as they have more resources and therefore time with which to woo them. This means that a larger pool of older men will be competing for a smaller pool of younger women. It is mathematically impossible for every man therefore to successfully reproduce, no matter how much they game or looksmaxx.

I remember hearing decades ago about China's "excess male" problem thanks to the one-child policy. The entire developed world has this problem now (save Russia and Ukraine thanks to liquidating their excess males in war), and has not yet realized this. Even in societies with a normal population pyramid, expatriates looking for love will make this a problem for the locals by solving their own reproductive problem. "Unrealistic" female expectations of their mate is simply downstream of them being spoiled for choice. Young males will be frustrated until they become established older males, and in many cases not even then. There is nothing whatsoever that can fix this other than the succeeding generations becoming larger than that which preceedeth.

The only coping strategy that is viable in the meantime is temporally displaced polyandry as embodied by the dual mating strategy of single mothers. That, or take the TFM strategy of unapologetic pursuit of substitutes. In more extreme cases this will simply result in war. This will not change during the lifetime of anyone currently living. Most of politics will be downstream of these simple mathematical ratios for the forseeable future. It's not black-pilling to simply recognize facts.