Not surprising that a former employee would be left feeling somewhat dirty by the whole process, most especially a woman. Unfortunately for the man, however, it is a numbers game. At least 9/10 of your interactions as a dude are gonna be a strikeout. Regardless of the "Alpha" BS talked about in this article, men are not the choosers. As such, of course it is gonna feel strange to someone on the other end of that equation.

Neat to see that this is the direction it is moving towards, however. The market commoditizes everything, eventually for the better.